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My boyfriend wants me to do a strip tease for him and he wants to watch me masturbate. I am very shy and the thought of doing this for him turns me on, but when it comes down to doing it, I get "cold feet." How do I do these things for him? Any suggestions would be most helpful!!!

--Shy Girl

Dear Sarah,

My girlfriend loves to be spanked. I do my best to redden her bottom, both bare-handed and with paddles, hairbrushes, etc.—but no matter what implements I use, she tells me I'm not spanking her hard enough and I end up feeling inadequate. I don't mind putting my girlfriend over my knee as foreplay, but seriously injuring the woman I love is not a turn-on to me. How hard is too hard? How do I tell if I'm really hurting her? Any advice you could give me in this area would be appreciated.

Dear Sarah,

What is CBT? I saw it in an ad for some fetish videos, but the term was never explained. I’m not into kinky stuff, I’m just curious.

--Not Into SM, Just Curious

My name is Sarah, and I'm a sex addict. No, wait.

My name is Sarah. I've spent over ten years of my life working as a stripper, a fetish model, a dominatrix, and a porn performer. I'm the author of two published books, countless articles, and several nasty porn stories (one of which will be appearing in the upcoming book "F*cking Daphne:  Mostly True Stories and Fictions" [Seal Press, May 2008]). I'm a lover and a fighter. I'm a feminist rabble-rouser, a social critic, and a curmudgeon. I'm a registered counselor in Washington State. Basically, I'm the Stripper Next Door—a nice girl who's kept her portfolio diverse.