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My boyfriend wants me to do a strip tease for him and he wants to watch me masturbate. I am very shy and the thought of doing this for him turns me on, but when it comes down to doing it, I get "cold feet." How do I do these things for him? Any suggestions would be most helpful!!!

--Shy Girl

Have a couple of belts of whiskey. A few cocktails can bring out the exhibitionist in even the shyest chiquita. Don't believe me? Rent a "Girls Gone Wild" DVD and observe the inhibition-lowering power of alcohol at its finest.

But if you don't want to get drunk to give your boyfriend a night to remember, Shy Girl, try the following professional tips:

1. Play music that gets you in the mood. Whether it's soft and sensual or tough and hard-edged, you need a soundtrack that will guide the tempo of your performance. Pick a song you know by heart so there are no surprises—a nineteen-minute drum solo might be awesome to listen to in concert but when you're giving an erotic performance for the very first time, the last thing you want is a never-ending jam. Aim for a track that's short and sweet—it takes less time to peel off your clothes than you think, and you don't want to end up stark naked with nothing to do halfway through your song.

2. Dress up. This may sound counterintuitive, but the more clothes you have on, the more you'll have to take off during your show, thus avoiding the dreaded "I'm naked—now what do I do?" panic. When I was dancing on Bourbon Street, I'd regularly don the following before going onstage: high heeled shoes, stockings, a garter belt, a tiny g-string, lacy full-cut panties, a bra, a corset, a slip, long satin gloves, and a feather boa. This ensured that I'd have plenty to do during my two-song set so I didn't end up topless and humping the pole for six agonizing minutes of stage-time.

Men love watching ladies' clothing come off, so give your man a treat and strip like a pro: don't just take something off, tease it off slowly. Remove your gloves finger by finger. Ease your panties over your hips like you're getting paid by the minute. Move in slow motion—count "one, one thousand…two, one thousand….three, one thousand" in your head if you find you're speeding up. Make him wait for it—your man may be begging you to bare it all right away, but what he really wants is the excruciatingly hot rush of anticipation that builds as he wonders which part of your costume will drop away next. Don't rush through your striptease and ruin it for him. He wants you to be in control, so take the reins and work it like the hot little tart you know you can be.

And this may go without saying, but a strip-tease is no time to hang up or fold your clothes neatly, Martha Stewart—just let your lingerie drop to the floor and kick it away playfully if it gets underfoot.

3. Finally, if you decide to masturbate for your boyfriend, remember to have plenty of accessories at the ready—lube, toys, nipple clamps, etc.—all shiny clean and within easy reach. Keep in mind that a masturbation show isn't like actual masturbation, meaning your goal isn't to get off, it's to give a hot performance. So be theatrical! Remember to moan, pant, and make eye contact with him—men love eye contact because when you're gazing into their eyes lovingly, they know you're not fantasizing about the hot stud next door. If you're too shy to look him in the face while you're spanking it, stick your butt in the air and do it doggy-style. What's sacrificed in eye contact will be made up for by the fact that your entire business, from stem to stern, will be on eye-popping display. So choose a pornographic position that feels right to you, and remember you can always switch it up if you get a leg cramp.

Good luck, Shy Girl!

And don't forget those cocktails—shaken or stirred, a little liquid courage is every girl's prerogative when it comes to gettin' naked with the lights on.