There are times in a man’s life when he just needs to get laid. The rigmarole of meeting someone, engaging them in conversation, finding commonalities, and then eventually scoring is just too much of a production. Instant gratification, in its purest form, is the ultimate goal.
My personal solution is to accept defeat and take matters into my own hands, so to speak. Sometimes I’ll call on the services of an old friend, but when the deed is done, I usually remember why he is no longer at the top of my call list.