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Don't tell her outright!! If you do, she'll just be upset you've lied to her (which she might or might not be right about-it all depends on how she reacts to critisism). There's two ways you can (subtly) steer her in the right direction: 1) Play a game with it. Tell her you want to give her oral, only have her tell you want she wants, and don't do anything else. Then, take your turn. 2) When she's giving you oral, moan and say; "Good girl" (or whatever) when she's doing something you like. When she isn't, say something like "A little softer (harder, etc.)" then, when she's doing it the way you like, say "Baby, yeah, that's it" or whatever. Make sure the way you respond when she is pleasing you without the direction is the same as when she's pleasing you with the direction. In other words, don't direct her one way every time and encourage her another way every time. She'll recognize the pattern and wonder about it. And next time she does something you don't like, just be honest (unless, of course, your girl is one of those women who throw fits and tantrums, in which case you might have to be subtle on that issue, too).