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Allison,

It sounds as if you are going through a rough time right now. I think you have two options 1. Withdraw from society until you feel good about yourself and end up depressed and lonely. 2. Really use this time to find out the people that will see beyond your looks into the wonderful person that you are under your temporary situation. Think about it, do you really just want to associate with guys that are so shallow that they won't give you the time of day if you aren't pretty enough for them? Use this time to experiment letting people get past your looks and into your heart, those are the kind of people who will really be worth it in the long run. I hope that helps a little.

We do enjoy attention from the opposite gender, don't we? I know even though I'm completely in love with and infatuated with my husband, it's nice to get an approving look for our appearance. But it's dangergous when we get dependent upon that, or base our value on it. You're still beautiful anyway! You still have a beautiful smile and eyes. Your personality can still shine - just let it. Remind yourself of your good qualities before starting a conversation. And you can still enjoy dressing in style. After having kids I was really hard on myself about my figure, which didn't rebound 100%, but is sexy in a different way, apparently. I report that with gladness! Different men like different things, anyway. So, don't assume no one will be into you now! And you might be interested in the spiritual side of yourself. Try the book Captivating; it settled a number of beauty and personal value issues in my heart.