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First, consider his background. Are his parents religiously or politically conservative? Has he been abused or seen abuse? If his parents are conservative, chances are he was raised with ideals of what "good" people do and don't do. (Not always, but this is the majority of cases). If he has seen abuse or been a victim of it himself, he may be leery of any sexual acts (even if the abuse itself wasn't sexual) that resembles the abuse. Also, if this is the case, reliving an abusive memory can be as tramautic as if it were happening all over again (I speak from experience). So please try to find other, faithful, ways of experimenting if this is the case. If not, try to talk to your husband during an activity that relaxes you both, preferably when you're feeling emotionally connected but NOT directly before, during or after sex. (Just wanted to make sure you knew that). That said, let him know you're not complaining about him, as a person or as a lover, but that you'd like to try new things. Let him know you're open to suggestions as well (and if he tells you something you could be doing differently, remember you wanted him to be open to constructive critism, so you need to be too!) Another suggestion: "Super Hot Sex" by Tracey Cox is a good read if you're wanting to be more adventurous. Put a star or an arrow next to your suggestions and leave a note for your husband, directing him to put a check mark or something next to the ones he's willing to try. Then, put the book in a place where he's likely to find it (when he's alone-if he finds it when he's with his friends (or his boss) he'll just be more embarrassed and may get some ribbing which could lead to him being even more reluctant). It's more cumbersome, but he may just be a little embarrased. And remember: don't nag or push him to return the book (subtly or not). Being supportive and understanding is the key! Good luck in your efforts!