If you’ve installed a stripper pole, such as the Peek-A-Boo Pole Dancing Kit ( about $100) lean back against it (if not, any smooth wall will do). Reach behind your head, grasp the pole lightly for balance, then arch your back and slide down into a graceful squat. Keep your knees apart to give your sweetheart a tantalizing eyeful! If you’re wearing a g-string or panties, consider pulling them aside briefly to “flash” your partner. A glimpse of flesh is much more exciting than total nudity and can feel thrillingly illicit.