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Bondage beginners should keep in mind that allowing someone to tie one up is an act of trust. Since bondage depends on that essential trust, it’s a good idea to come up with a “safe” word that means “stop immediately.” You may feel your trust is such that you don’t need a safe word, but it can’t do any harm to have one. Sometimes you just get your wrist or foot twisted wrong, even when your partner is not exceeding your limits.
Bondage and fantasy go hand in hand. Often, people enjoy switching roles from their daily lives. Dominant, powerful men can relax giving into being tied to a bed and under the control of a woman. Women who are soft-spoken and shy may come alive taking sexual control of a partner cuffed and blindfolded. Or visa versa.

Blindfolding your partner adds another dimension to any restraint. It spices up any encounter and is itself a type of bondage, but it’s even more fun if hands are tied or cuffed.

Some advice for beginners:

Take turns. Tie each other up. See if one of you is a natural “top” or “bottom.” The “top” is the dominant partner who ties up the other, who is the “bottom.” Getting a feel for both sides of this sexual equation is a good idea in any event. People who live this as a lifestyle will sometimes “switch” so they better understand the feelings and interactions from the other point of view.

That may be the biggest secret in bondage: whichever role you play, you have to get into the other person’s head to make bondage scenarios work.

Whatever you do, exercise common sense. It’s not a great idea to experiment with bondage with strangers or in unfamiliar places.

And when the scene is over, you might enjoy spending some quiet time together slowly coming back to earth.