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A Beginner’s Guide to Spankin’ It (Barehanded) |
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Written by Sarah Katherine Lewis
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Sunday, 19 August 2007 |
 You’ve been very naughty, and now you’re going to get the spanking you deserve.
If these words bring a glow to your cheeks, consider incorporating spanking play into your bedroom repertoire. With a little knowledge (and a willing partner in crime), you can turn those glowing cheeks red-hot!
Start out slow and barehanded, patting the fleshiest part of your partner’s bottom as your honey lays tummy-down on the bed (or across your lap, if both of you find the idea of over-the-knee spanking a turn-on). Allow your partner to acclimate to the patting sensation, and remain gentle—no surprise whacks in the beginning, no matter how tempting. Your partner is physically vulnerable and needs to be able to trust you. Tensed muscles during a spanking—even a light one—can result in bruising, so remind your sweetie to relax, and don’t strike if your partner is involuntarily tightening up. If this happens, try rubbing the skin instead, generating reassuring warmth and friction.
Very gradually increase the force behind each love-pat as your partner indicates a desire for more. Don’t spank over the low-back area—kidneys live there, and they don’t like being hit! Also, avoid the spine. Keep your focus on the fullest, fattiest part of each buttock, alternating strokes between sides so as not to “wear out” the skin on one side prematurely.
If your partner asks for a firmer stroke, now’s the time to make it sting—but remember, this is foreplay, not domestic abuse, so go slow and make sure the sensation is pleasurable to your partner at every level.
A good bare-handed spanking circulates blood and sensitizes the skin, resulting in a beautiful pink glow, a delightful tingling sensation, and an endorphin rush that can feel intensely erotic.
And remember that turn-about is fair play: After you’re done spanking your partner, it’s only proper to surrender your own bottom and let your honey spank you.
Revenge, after all, can be awfully sweet.
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Sarah Katherine Lewis |
| About the author: |
| Sarah Katherine Lewis is a ten-year veteran of the adult industry, performing as a stripper, a fetish model, a dominatrix, a stage dancer, a porn star, and a "chakra-balancing spiritual body worker." Her books include "Indecent: How I Make It And Fake It As A Girl For Hire" (Seal Press, 2006) and "Sex and Bacon: Why I Love Things That Are Very, Very Bad For Me" (Seal, 2008).
At the present she's finishing a screenplay based on her first book and chronicling her day-to-day life at http://www.sarahkatherinelewis.com/blog/.
She lives alone in Seattle, sleeps in a walk-in closet, and enjoys baking pies while rocking out to sleaze-metal. | |
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