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How to share your fantasies |
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Written by Millard Fillmore and Sally Rangeway
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Wednesday, 11 July 2007 |
 Opening up your deepest fantasies can be difficult, even if you’ve been partners for years. But in fact, exploring your fantasies and those of your partner can lead to some of life’s most memorable sexual moments.
Getting started is the hardest part. Here are a few techniques intended to break the ice:
- Rent an adult video where the performers act out your fantasy. It’s an easy step from watching to saying, “I’d like to try that.”
- Try an adult role playing game. A wide variety of different games are available from Poker for Lovers to Bondage 101. The Sex Casino Game comes with a Foreplay roulette wheel and a manual of 25 bedroom games.
- Invest in some books of sexual techniques and make a “date” with your partner to try out something new every week. Take turns picking the position, or just close your eyes and open the book at random.
- Role the dice. A set of Spicy Dice can suggest new positions, locations and activities that will get your juices flowing.
- Sometimes it’s easier to express yourself in writing. Make up stories about exploring your fantasies and leave a letter under the pillow or send a seductive email. Instant messaging is also a fun way to “write” your fantasies in real time.
- Go shopping together at an online store that sells adult sex toys, xxx lingerie, and role-playing costumes. Make up stories about what you would do with each item. Who knows what fantasies vibrating cock rings, inflatable butt plugs and strap-on dildos will inspire?
- Why not just ask? But be prepared to be a little surprised and remember to always play in a safe environment.
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