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Department Now I Wanna Be Your Dog (Dominance/Submission for Beginners)
| Now I Wanna Be Your Dog (Dominance/Submission for Beginners) |
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| Written by Sarah Katherine Lewis | |||||
| Sunday, 09 September 2007 | |||||
 My new lover was eleven years younger than me, eager to please, and very interested in BDSM, though lacking in much real-life experience. He fantasized about taking a dominant role and I agreed to be his submissive for the night, so after we returned to my apartment from dinner I purred, "I'm all yours, sir."Half an hour later, he had me pinned to the floor in a classic wrestler's hold. One of my thigh-high stockings was tied over my eyes as a blindfold—the other one had been ripped to shreds. As I struggled against his superior strength, I was getting more and more turned on. The Kid was a natural! "Talk to me," I begged. He paused. "What do I say?" "Dominate me! Make me feel vulnerable!" He'd been instinctively good at everything else—I figured he just needed my permission to start turning my ears red with wickedly hot patter. I couldn't wait to be put in my place like the hot little slut I was (well, for the night, anyway). "Okay," he said. "You're old. And—your floor needs sweeping. You're too lazy to sweep your own floor, aren't you?" He shook my wrists for emphasis. "You're old, and lazy!" "Okay, wait. Stop," I said. Bewildered, he released his grip on my hands. I sat up and removed my blindfold, surreptitiously shaking a few dust-bunnies out of my hair at the same time. He was right—I did need to sweep. "Honey, that first part was really good," I said, careful to praise his earlier, more physical efforts. "I loved the way you held me down." I took a deep breath. "But Dominance and Submission have a lot to do with verbal play, and that part…needs work." "I don't get it," he said. "I thought I was supposed to put you down—insult you." "Well, sometimes…" I said. "It's complicated." I thought a moment. "Okay. You know how Sadism and Masochism are about giving and receiving physical pain, for the most part? Like, the Sadist enjoys whipping and the Masochist enjoys being whipped, so it's a match made in heaven, right?" The Kid nodded. "Dominance and Submission are kind of like that," I said. "But the Dominant enjoys being powerful and in charge. You can understand the appeal of being in control—most people can. But the Submissive finds pleasure in being vulnerable to the Dominant—in being controlled, and told what to do. In some cases, a Sub can even like being verbally chastised or insulted—it's all part of being guided into an incredibly vulnerable emotional space by a good Dom, which can feel very intimate and pleasurable to a Submissive." "I don't get it," said the Kid. "I thought I was insulting you." You're old, and lazy! I shuddered. "Okay, yeah, you were," I said. "But the thing is, a good Dom doesn't actually try to make their Sub feel bad about themselves for real. That's mental abuse, not D/S play." I plucked another dust bunny from my hair. "So, uh…you want to stay away from areas that might actually be sensitive spots in real life, sweetheart." "So, what would have been better?" I smiled. "How about something like You little slut, I'm going to give you the treatment you deserve…or wait, I have a better idea." I retrieved the stocking blindfold, and slid it over his eyes. "All right, little boy," I said. "You did the best you could, but now Mama's good and mad. You'd better do everything she says, or you're gonna be in a world of hurt. So get on your knees, boy…now." Standing over him, I smacked his cheek lightly, then tugged his hair. The rest of the night passed quite pleasantly after all. | |||||
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