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Spankin’ It: Part 2 (Implements) |
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Written by Sarah Katherine Lewis
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Sunday, 02 September 2007 |
So you've mastered barehanded spanking and you're itchin' for a new sensation? Try using an implement. Start with a paddle made of leather or wood. A light paddling will sting, but with a little more force you can create a heavier, "thuddier" sensation. Experiment with varying your pressure, layering lighter blows over heavier ones. Sting on top of thud can add up to a wonderfully complex mix of heat and ache that will sensitize your partner's skin for the next implement.
Next, try a riding crop—a thin, wickedly flexible rod with a little tab of leather at the tip. When brought down against your partner's buttocks, the crop creates a hot, slicing sensation that can be agonizingly pleasurable. Keep a light hand—a crop can break the skin when applied with too much force. A little pain is sexy, but scar tissue is not.
If you don't own a paddle or a riding crop, try using a hairbrush. Use
the hard side to spank, then use the bristles to tease your partner's
reddening skin. Brush sensually, then spank again. Your poor sweetheart
won't know whether to moan or shriek! Again, remember to layer
sensations—variation prevents the skin from becoming numb.
Finish your spanking session with a good flogging. A flogger is a tool
comprised of strips of leather, plastic, or rope bound together with a
handle. When you bring a flogger down across your partner's back or
buttocks, each strand will first slap and then drag against the skin—a
quick wake-up followed by a low, slow burn. Practice flicking the
handle lightly, as if cracking a bullwhip: the more built-up velocity
in the ends of the strips, the greater the sensation.
When using a tool instead of your hand, make sure not to go
overboard—it's easier to judge how much pressure you're applying during
a bare-handed spanking than it is when you're using an implement.
Always start with light tapping or patting, and work up from there as
your partner begs for more.
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Sarah Katherine Lewis |
| About the author: |
| Sarah Katherine Lewis is a ten-year veteran of the adult industry, performing as a stripper, a fetish model, a dominatrix, a stage dancer, a porn star, and a "chakra-balancing spiritual body worker." Her books include "Indecent: How I Make It And Fake It As A Girl For Hire" (Seal Press, 2006) and "Sex and Bacon: Why I Love Things That Are Very, Very Bad For Me" (Seal, 2008).
At the present she's finishing a screenplay based on her first book and chronicling her day-to-day life at http://www.sarahkatherinelewis.com/blog/.
She lives alone in Seattle, sleeps in a walk-in closet, and enjoys baking pies while rocking out to sleaze-metal. | |