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Written by Jesse Bristol

Saturday, 30 June 2007

There are times in a man’s life when he just needs to get laid. The rigmarole of meeting someone, engaging them in conversation, finding commonalities, and then eventually scoring is just too much of a production. Instant gratification, in its purest form, is the ultimate goal.

My personal solution is to accept defeat and take matters into my own hands, so to speak. Sometimes I’ll call on the services of an old friend, but when the deed is done, I usually remember why he is no longer at the top of my call list.
Empty sex, as gratifying as it can be, is not really part of my personality. It’s primal and exciting and it definitely makes for some great storytelling. It can certainly be a good time, but it’s still a rarity in my life. Call me old fashioned (or just plain neurotic) but anonymous sex seems like a dangerous treat, and Mom always told me never to take candy from strangers. So, more often than not, I resist the temptation. Other guys don’t employ such self-control. So where do they get off?

You’re looking at it. The Internet has become a haven for those looking for a quick thrill. The simple online classified pages have been trumped by countless networking sites that exist primarily for the sake of finding someone to bone. By plugging in your zip code and your interests, you’ll be introduced to countless guys in your nearby vicinity to go have sex with.

Be forewarned. More than likely, you’ll know many of these guys, or at least you’ll have seen them before. That’s because they live in your town and frequent the same bars and clubs as you. But they’re human, and they have needs of their own.

The general unspoken rule after spotting someone you know is that you don’t call each other out on it, especially not in public. And if you do hook up with someone, you barely acknowledge each other next time you see them in public. It seems crass, but anonymous sex doesn’t really work if you compromise the anonymity of it.

If the Internet isn’t your thing, and want to get off nice and easy, try the old “Sidewalk Sale” approach. Spend the evening at the bar or club of your choice. After last call, when the bar closes and everyone filters out onto the sidewalk, take a look around. Check out the guys lagging behind. Chances are you can get lucky there if you play your cards right. You may even see someone lingering around who caught your attention earlier in the night. A friendly nod and a suggestive glance speaks volumes. You may just end up with someone following you to your car. Mission accomplished.

Jesse Bristol
		About the author:
		Jesse Bristol was born and raised in New York. After receiving his Bachelors in Communications, Jesse moved to Los Angeles to become immersed in the land of glitz and glamour. Jesse had been writing for various gay and lesbian publications in the Southern California area for six years. Covering topics from sex, travel, advice and nightlife, Jesse enjoys reporting on any subject that warrants exploration. Jesse is once again single and misses the old fashioned practice of dating.