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How to Use Strap-ons (for Lesbians) |
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Written by Nikki Daly
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Friday, 15 June 2007 |
Nearly 75 percent of lesbians say they use a harness and dildo on a regular basis because it provides a connection to a partner that is both literal and emotional. The marketplace has responded to the trend with harnesses in a variety of styles and with a variety of accessories.
Exactly what to choose depends on what you like – clitoral stimulation, penetration or mutual penetration?
For lesbians “without a penis between them,” as the saying goes, there
are now double dongs that give them two. The wearer’s curved end fits
inside of her while the other end stands upright for great friction and
penetration of her partner. The solid piece fits through the harness
ring and locks into place with a soft ridged coupling that means
real-time thrusting with no delays and a delicious feeling of fullness
for both partners at the same time.
But if you’d rather take turns, harness sets take some of the guesswork
out of what to buy since they already come equipped with accessories.
Or, if you already have a dildo with a flat or flared base, you may
just be able to get away with buying a harness.
Jenna’s Harness, a stylish accessory with white leather straps and
silver buckles, comes with a 6-inch dildo with balls and 4-inch and
5½-inch butt plugs. Small frame and plus-size women report they got a
snug fit and the accessories stayed in place close to their bodies.
Another popular choice is the Powerlock Harness which resembles a black
crotchless thong and is adjustable up to a 48-inch waist. It allows the
wearer’s partner easy access to her clitoris, but couples also say the
base of the dildo can be positioned to contact the wearer’s clitoris.
The patented snap-on design makes it easy to attach the 7 x 2-inch
jelly rubber phallus and keeps it firmly in place.
For the brave of heart, the biggest package belongs to the Jesse Jane
Twisted Dong and Harness set – a red and black patent leather thong
with an 8 x 2-inch dong. If you need a bit more action with your
action, try the Jack Rabbit Strap-On vibe. The twirling, jelly-coated
pearls provide divine vaginal stimulation, while the soft bunny ears
lick her clit. The vibe fits securely in the crotchless, black patent
leather harness, and is removable for solo play.
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Nikki Daly |
| About the author: |
| Nikki Daly is a former newspaper reporter and magazine editor with more than 40 local, state and national awards for her articles and columns. A bit of a moving target, she began her career as a sports reporter, moved on to news and was editor of her hometown’s Charleston Magazine by the time she was 27. She loves travel and has written chapters on her favorite places for various guidebooks. Favorite trips have included Kenya, Africa, France, Ireland and Scotland. Her freelancing leaves her footloose and fancy free, which is just the way she likes it. Nikki has been working on several marketing projects for clients recently and as a translator/editor. Her latest translation was a French novel about the Belgian Congo. Nikki is single and dating.
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