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“So…,” I asked, like a high school girl, “how was it?”

I was talking to my 27-year-old friend Sean. He’s a hot cross between David Beckham and, if you can picture it, Seth Green. He’s got the looks, the humor, the charm, and the red hair. He’s also got a ferocious sex drive not to be messed with, and he usually offers up hot sexual anecdotes to anyone within range, including the poor unsuspecting woman behind the counter at 7-Eleven.   

“We had fun,” he offered.  “He’s really nice. And he paid for our beer.”

Now this, I admit, was disappointing. I didn’t care who paid for the beer, or how nice he was. I wanted the gritty details, the kind that I normally don’t have to pry out of Sean, the kind that can ignite my fantasy life for weeks. 

After weeks of subtle glances and tipsy flirtations, Sean had just had a date with Robert, a sexy 24-year-old cross between Jake Gyllenhaal and Maksim Chmerkovskiy, that smoking hot dancer on Dancing with the Stars.  It was a date I had waited 20 long hours to live vicariously though.
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“Why are you being vague?” I asked, feeling a bit irritated. “Do you like him, or something?” 

A strange question, perhaps, but Sean is in that habit of sleeping with someone and then deciding later if he’s someone he’d like to continue seeing. 

“No,” he answered.  “He’s too young.” 

“So, then, how was the sex?”

“We didn’t have sex,” he admitted. “We messed around in our underwear, and then went to bed.”

“So…you cuddled?”

“Yes, he admitted. “And it was nice.”

Nice?! No sex is nice? Never did I think I’d see the day. It seems that even the most ferocious of sexual appetites can be derailed after years of feeding the beast. 

Fair shares of HIV scares, lonely mornings, and angry boyfriends have finally caused empty sex to make way for deep cuddling for many healthy, horny men. Consider the alternative that we’ve become all too familiar with:  a wet spot, a lonely morning and, once or twice, even a thank you note.

Then there are those random evenings of cuddly spooning with a friend that took you by surprise. While you may have pondered for a day or two about where those feelings came from, you eventually realized they were likely just expressions of a need to connect; a need to feel love.

It seems that sometimes “the beast” just wants to be held