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Our Jesse (a frequent contributor to our Gay Play department) dishes with Shoshana Pearl, his chick friend, about guys who won’t kiss on hook-ups.

Jesse: Shoshana, did I tell you about that guy Chris from Saturday night?

Shoshanna: I don’t think so. Which one was he?

Jesse: I thought I did. That muscular guy…totally hot in every way. But he didn't kiss.
I've heard of that before, but he was the first for me

Shoshanna: That's just so weird. Why would you put your mouth on someone's cock but not their mouth?

Jesse: That's so totally true! But I’m wondering if maybe it’s, like, an "intimacy thing." And if so, maybe that is good for suckers like me. You know, because how I can fall so easily sometimes. This way, it was just hardcore action, and no lovey-dovey bull.

Shoshanna: Ok, but wouldn't you imagine that he's like that with everyone?
And isn't that sad for him? Don't you think that means he's afraid of intimacy?

Jesse: Probably. Good point. But he's dated before. He's had some long-term relationships. I did get that out of him.

Shoshanna: OK, but how long does he wait to "allow" a kiss? I really don't know any lesbians who are like that, but I imagine they're out there. For me, I go for the kiss FIRST.

Jesse: Maybe he just doesn't kiss when he's not hardcore attracted to the guy he's hooking up with. Maybe he's got different rules for horny hook-ups and romantic ones.

Shoshanna: Yeah, maybe. And I guess there's nothing wrong with that, per se. But for me, I'm hooking up for intimacy...whether hot and all about the "final goal" or not, it's still intimacy.

Jesse:  Yeah, I dig kissing. You can kind of tell a good lay from a bad one by how they
kiss. So you've never hooked up with a lady that wasn't into kissing?

Shoshanna: No way. That's so Pretty Woman. So '90's.

Jesse: LOL!  Well, this was my first... well, not counting some seedy club hookups.  Bathroom play and such.

Shoshanna: Right. You’re foul.

Jesse: You know, sometimes there's no time for kissing!

Shoshanna: Wow. Well that's the difference between guys and gals. I think.

Jesse: I bet Oprah doesn't like kissing.

Shoshanna: WTF?

Jesse: I’m just sayin.’

Shoshanna: She kisses Gayle every night.

Jesse: Okaaaaay!

Shoshanna: Oh snaps.

Jesse: When you're getting fresh with your girlfriend, do you ever skip the foreplay and go right for the gold?

Shoshanna:  No. Well, sometimes, if I'm really tired, and I am the "spoonee," I won't turn around for kisses while we're making out, but she'll still kiss my neck and back, etc.
Sometimes if we skip the kissing it's just because we've done so much kissing over our six years...been there, done that kind of situation, you know?

Jesse: I see. So for reasons quite different than raw sex between two strange men.

Shoshanna: LOL, totally.

Jesse: Well, I guess I sort of get it. I'm all about the kissing, but I can sort of understand a guy not wanting to "get attached." I mean, as attached as one can get from some french kissing.

Shoshanna: yeah, i prefer "freedom kissing."

Jesse: Well, I think I’m going to stay clear of that guy, since it was obviously a one-time thing. And that guy Matt from the other night is texting me quite a bit now. And he liked the kissing thing.

Shoshanna: Play on, Jesse!

Jesse: You know it!