Advice from a Professional: How to Strip for Your Partner (for Beginners)

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Advice from a Professional: How to Strip for Your Partner (for Beginners)

Written by Sarah Katherine Lewis

Thursday, 09 August 2007

Want to give your partner a sultry surprise? How about a red-hot personal strip tease?

First, groom yourself the way you would for any big night out-bathe, shave any areas you prefer smooth, and put on sexy evening makeup. Don't forget the scented lotion, fragrant essential oils, or cologne-remember, you're appealing to all the senses! You want to smell and feel as good as you look. Skip the styling gel and leave your hair loose-there's nothing more tantalizing than the sweep of soft hair against your partner's neck and chest. Next, choose a costume. Give yourself a layer of lingerie to shed-for instance, try wearing boy-cut briefs over a thong, or a lacy camisole over a push-up bra. You'll want clothes to take off during your striptease, but you also want to make sure you don't end up completely naked by the end of your song. And keep your shoes on, no matter what else you remove.

Pick a song that puts you in the mood and move to the music as slowly as you can. It's natural to feel a little nervous, but try not to let your anxiety speed you up. Try counting very slowly in your head during your dance-give your honey the time to absorb every inch of your beauty. Instead of dancing the way you would at a club, move smoothly and sinuously from pose to pose, holding each one for a few beats. Use your hands to direct your sweetheart's gaze: touch yourself where you want to be appreciated. Spank yourself. The smack of hand against flesh can add a very exciting sound to your routine.

The most important part of any private dance is eye contact. Look directly into your partner's eyes as you move, and smile (or pout!). Remember that your gaze tells your partner that you're having a wonderful, sexy time-and the more relaxed and comfortable you are, the hotter your show will be.

So breathe deeply, keep counting, and enjoy your lover's complete attention, you sexy thing!

Sarah Katherine Lewis
		About the author:
		Sarah Katherine Lewis is a ten-year veteran of the adult industry, performing as a stripper, a fetish model, a dominatrix, a stage dancer, a porn star, and a "chakra-balancing spiritual body worker." Her books include "Indecent: How I Make It And Fake It As A Girl For Hire" (Seal Press, 2006) and "Sex and Bacon: Why I Love Things That Are Very, Very Bad For Me" (Seal, 2008). At the present she's finishing a screenplay based on her first book and chronicling her day-to-day life at http://www.sarahkatherinelewis.com/blog/. She lives alone in Seattle, sleeps in a walk-in closet, and enjoys baking pies while rocking out to sleaze-metal.