Advice from a Professional: How To Strip For Your Partner: Part 2 (Beyond the Basics)

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Advice from a Professional: How To Strip For Your Partner: Part 2 (Beyond the Basics)

Written by Sarah Katherine Lewis

Thursday, 16 August 2007

Advice from a Professional: How To Strip For Your Partner: Part 2 (Beyond the Basics)

Now that you’ve mastered moving slowly and maintaining provocative eye contact during your striptease, it’s time to turn up the heat with a few steamy professional tricks that will leave your honey gasping for more.

If you’ve installed a stripper pole, such as the Peek-A-Boo Pole Dancing Kit ( about $100) lean back against it (if not, any smooth wall will do). Reach behind your head, grasp the pole lightly for balance, then arch your back and slide down into a graceful squat. Keep your knees apart to give your sweetheart a tantalizing eyeful! If you’re wearing a g-string or panties, consider pulling them aside briefly to “flash” your partner. A glimpse of flesh is much more exciting than total nudity and can feel thrillingly illicit.

Now that you’re in a squatting position, carefully roll forward onto your hands and knees. Arch your back like a kitty—then begin a slow, exaggerated cat-crawl toward your partner’s lap, as if stalking prey. Detouring past a floor-length mirror will insure a heart-stopping view of your sexy backside in action.

Once between your lover’s knees, take your time to seduce. You may be on the floor, but you’re in complete control. Tease your partner by continuing to move slowly. Remember that when you’re that close, they’re being pleasurably overwhelmed by your proximity—the scent of your skin and hair, your sensual expression, the feel of your body against their inner thighs. Constant activity can be a distraction—let your honey experience you in small, mind-melting degrees.

Maintain eye contact, insert a finger between your lips and suck on it suggestively. Caress your own breasts, touching yourself the way you like to be touched. If it feels good, moan or sigh—let your partner hear your pleasure. Allow yourself to be swept away in the sensuality of the moment.

Remember, you’re dancing for someone you care about—and unlike a professional lap-dance, your private striptease just might include a mutually mind-blowing happy ending.

Sarah Katherine Lewis
		About the author:
		Sarah Katherine Lewis is a ten-year veteran of the adult industry, performing as a stripper, a fetish model, a dominatrix, a stage dancer, a porn star, and a "chakra-balancing spiritual body worker." Her books include "Indecent: How I Make It And Fake It As A Girl For Hire" (Seal Press, 2006) and "Sex and Bacon: Why I Love Things That Are Very, Very Bad For Me" (Seal, 2008). At the present she's finishing a screenplay based on her first book and chronicling her day-to-day life at http://www.sarahkatherinelewis.com/blog/. She lives alone in Seattle, sleeps in a walk-in closet, and enjoys baking pies while rocking out to sleaze-metal.