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How To Give Your Bedroom Confidence A Jump Start |
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Written by Dave Wells
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Wednesday, 19 March 2008 |
Confidence is sexy. So even if you need to lose a few pounds or need an emergency wardrobe operation, you can still “seal the deal” if you’ve got the confidence to pull it off.
Be yourself. Whether you’re looking for the perfect pick-up line or just flashing your boobs at strangers until someone invites you home, don’t pretend to be someone you are not. Sure, playing the game might inflate your one-night stand scores, but it will only hurt your long-term confidence. You’ll get a lot more in the long-run by just acting like your normal self.
Dump them if they deserve it. At one time or another, most men or women have let a hotter partner take advantage of them – from acting as their personal ATM to outright cheating. Feel free to spend a few great nights with them but don’t let yourself fall for the “Good Looks” trap. If they treat you badly, leave them at the curb.
Get in touch with what gets you off. If you enjoy a little spanking now and then because you’ve been a bad boy or if you just want your partner to dress up in that schoolgirl uniform, then share it your partner. Even if they axe your idea of an orgy with midget mud wrestlers, you’ll never know what they might agree to unless you ask.
Make sex a natural progression. While sex is an important step in any relationship, you shouldn’t make the mistake of treating it like some chore you’re trying to cross off your list. Rushing it only weakens your experience then and decreases the odds of more sex in the future.
Let it all hang out, relatively speaking. Sex is a primal act, so don’t be afraid to just let everything go. Forget about that car payment or the dishes sitting in the sink and completely surrender yourself to the moment and let your inner animal out to play. Trust me, this will be the best sex of your life. |
Dave Wells |
| About the author: |
| Dave Wells, a former copywriter for a sex toy manufacturer, has recently branched off on his own. He’s written on topics ranging from trucking to technology to toys. Dave readily (even proudly) admits to an “experimental past,” but he is currently in a long-term, committed relationship with a flight attendant with whom he enjoys “flying the friendly skies.”
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