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Funny creatures, men are. Especially gay men. Running amuck, hooking up all over the place, and looking only for Mr. Right Now with no concern about Mr. Right.

But then it happens. In the midst of what you thought would just be another physical encounter, something strange happens. You are interested in more.

More than just the blow job, more than just the sex, more than the date and time of your next hook-up. You are interested in their last name, what they do for a living, what they like to do for fun, and maybe even how many kids they dream of having.

The risk is substantial, as he may not be on the same page as you. He could very well be content with the simple “sex without strings” scenario. But, for you, it’s too late to retreat. There is no where to go but forward. Your feelings have already increased, so you have to put it on the line.

So what’s the game plan? How do you address the idea of romance? The trick is to stay casual, whimsical and, dare I say, passive. Flirtatious, innocent text messaging may be the only tool you need.

A simple “how about dinner?” or “lets catch a flick” could be your first step towards romance. If he’s not into it, you can hope for a simple “no can do, but how about sex later.”

It may not be the answer you want, and at least now you know what page he’s on. One the other hand, you may just be pleasantly surprised and receive a “sounds good.” From that point on, you can begin dating with two feet on solid ground instead of pointing to the sky.