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We have all been in relationships that start out with a bang! and the sex is intense and exciting. However, over time, the sex begins to subside into something more comfortable and deeper. We should be just happy and content that we have met someone who loves us, even if the sex has died out, correct? It is just the natural cycle of relationships, correct?

It doesn't have to be this way. I have learned the hard way, through personal experience, that both people in a relationship have to put effort into keeping it fresh and alive. I am in a marriage, like with most us, followed that natural course over time until the sex died out. At the time, I kept telling myself, "its ok, she loves me and this is natural". Yet, I still felt emptiness, like something was missing. I understand, that is impossible to have that unbelievable desire I once had in the beginning but does it really have to die completely?

I approached my wife with the idea of trying something new and different to add to our sex life or at least try to spice it up. Trust me, I realize I was not with the most open-minded person and this was going to be a tough hurdle. At first, she budged and was not interested, but eventually she gave in. I could tell she was saying yes just for me and it may be something we'll never pursue. You see, she thought our sex life was fine and it didn't need spicing up. Grrrrr.... Anyways, I finally bought a rabbit vibrator for her, along with a blind fold and soft cushioned ties for the legs and arms. Just as I had thought, she was saying yes just for me to basically stop mentioning it.

Our 3 year anniversary had arrived and she was in one those moods I had not seen in quite some time. She was "in the mood" and I'm sure the champagne had something to do with it. So, I brought out the blind fold, and then the straps. Amazingly, she agreed to it! I went to work with the vibrator and she went nuts! It turned into an amazing night and the sex was like it was when we first met. The next morning she had a huge smile on her face. We talked about the supplies I bought online, which was a surprise to me, since she did not normally like to talk about this stuff openly. We agreed to search for more adult novelties online and eventually bought some more, which continued to expand our horizons in the bedroom. Amazing! This girl, who I once thought was the most non-sexual person I had ever met, is now the complete opposite. Furthermore, we talk openly about sex, which in turn has led to us being open in all other ways too. It was the best thing that ever happened to us.

There are many companies out there that offer adult novelties and videos to help couples that are in a similar situation.

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