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I have a confession to make: the best sex I've ever had wasn't with another bi chick. It wasn't with one of my long-term lesbian girlfriends, either.

I may get kicked out of the Bi-Girls' Club for saying so, but the best lovin' I've ever had came from a straight guy. He was forceful and strong when I wanted caveman-style aggression, but slow and gentle when I needed to feel ravished. He went down like a champ, screwed like a stallion, and got me off like nobody's business.

When we broke up I cried for weeks, then spent $200 on a fancy, battery-operated Japanese sex toy. The swirly, bumpy toy felt amazing, but it was no substitute for the world-rockin' booty I'd been getting. I'd been spoiled by the best bedroom technique I'd ever experienced—a straight guy who made love to me like a lesbian!

Dudes, screwing your girl like a lesbian means slow, hard, and deep; with plenty of lip service before penetration. Girl-on-girl action is very, very wet, so don't be stingy with the water-based lube—you really can't have too much of that, especially if you're going to be knockin' on her back door. 

Think lesbians don't do it in the booty? Think again—butt-lovin' ladies just take it super-slow, starting out with slender toys and building up to dildos and vibes that are more substantial. Don't rush to cram your weenie between her buns—take your time and work up to that, starting with fingers or small, flanged anal toys. You'll know your lady wants more when she's arching her back and purring like a kitty. 

Learn from the lezzies and have a variety of sex toys of different sizes and textures available. Make sure some are battery-operated—sometimes a little love-buzz is just what we need to take us over the edge. Nipple clamps can also be quite sexy, but check with your lady before clamping her nips because some women are too sensitive to enjoy such strong sensation. And don’t forget to double-team your honey—use a toy inside her while you're giving her the tongue-lashing she deserves. Sure, it requires a little coordination—but trust me, she will thank you for the extra effort. If you're a total maverick, try a triple-team: add a toy in her butt (make sure it has a flanged base so it doesn't slip too far in) while you're working up front. (One last reminder:  LUBE.)

Most women come the hardest from manual stimulation, which is just a fancy term for a skillful hand-job—so find her clit and make it your new best friend. Some women like firm touch down there, while others can only stand contact that's whisper-soft and indirect. Lady-pleasin' dykes know to start out gently and to add more pressure gradually, backing off when her legs start to twitch and she goes from moaning to uncontrollable giggling. (Hey, sometimes we all miss those subtle differences.) A good hand-job is rhythmic, relaxed, and very wet—not much different than what you like in that department, right?

Whether your girl's bi or straight, with a little effort, you can be the best she's ever had.  One last little bit of advice: screwing like a lesbian is great, but playing the Indigo Girls while you and your lady are gettin' down is never a good idea. Try Nina Simone instead. Chicks love Nina, and the more comfortable she is, the more responsive she's going to be to your best mack-daddy moves.

See? You're already thinking like a good lezzie!