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"I've never had a girlfriend."

When my smart, handsome, funny 27-year-old friend spoke these words, I blurted out “Why?” with obvious shock. His answer was a mix of admitting maybe he “set his sights too high,” and that he was “a bit shy at large gatherings.”

A recent study which pinpointed 237 reasons why Americans have sex found that men and women aren’t that different after all. Both reported that their top reason for sex was:  I was attracted to the person. Although men and women ranked other reasons a little differently, both still had 20 of the top 25 reasons in common, including: It’s fun (#8 for women, #4 for men) and I was horny (#7 for both).

Age disparity in sexual relationships is nothing new. Arranged marriages, mail-order brides and even the offspring of royalty used as bargaining chips in post-war settlements often featured age-disparate unions.

Nonetheless, as time-warn as it is,  the subject never fails to create a buzz, especially when we’re not talking about the more common and acceptable older man-younger woman. It’s the combination of older woman, younger man that draws the looks, the snickers and the demeaning terms.

Suppose your friends ask if you want to go clubbing one night, but all you want to do is get your freak on (and not in a manner appropriate for any dance floor). Good news: there’s a club for that. Bathhouses and other types of private membership sex clubs are still alive and well, and many a gay man has paid the cover to get kinky.