Hot Tips: 69 Position

9/21/2009

Here's a little info on yet another hot position to try out tonight!

Of all the sex positions out there to act upon, 69ing is one of the most well-known; however, you'd be amazed how many people do NOT actually know how to dive on in, if you will. This position can provide for one of the most orgasmic experiences of your life... literally and figuratively.

This position allows both people involved to experience oral sex at the same time. And yes, like most sex positions out there, the 69 position can be performed in a variety of ways. Different angles, guy on top of girl, girl on top of guy, girl on top of girl, etc.

The norm for this position is one person on top of the other with each others' bellies touching, one person facing one direction and one facing the other direction (head-to-feet). In this basic position, it is quite simple to be in the exact spot necessary to perform oral sex on your partner. However, this position may not work for those couples that are not similar in height.

In this position, the gentleman is normally on bottom allowing the female to have all the control: speed, depth and "head" room can be left up to her when she sucks his penis. Meanwhile, the man is buried in his work, i.e. licking his partner's vagina. By being on top, she will be able to make sure she is not gagged by too much thrusting which often happens when the female is on bottom and a guy thrusts too hard causing his partner to choke.

The next variation for the 69 position is lying next to each other on your side, once again facing opposite directions, after all that's how the position got its name. This position allows you to lay your head on your partner's thigh, if you so choose. This might make it more bearable when you have been going at it for a long time and your neck starts to need some support! You may have to spread your legs a little differently, perhaps by raising your leg or wrapping it around your partner.

Feel free to try different ways to make this position work. If the man chooses, he might want to flip the woman upside down and hold her this way, bringing out the gymnast in her. Maybe she can do a handstand up against the wall while the man offers her some support. Do not be afraid to try new things, you never know when you might find something that "blows" your mind.

With any oral stimulation, the tongue, lips and teeth might do a lot of work, but don’t forget to put your own spin on things. Hands and fingers can be used to caress your partner all over their body… inside or out! In the 69 position, there is much greater access to the sensitive area between the front side of the vagina (and the penis) and the buttocks that other positions don't quite reach. Touch here for an added shock as your partner reaches their climax. And if open to the idea, the anus is also a huge pleasure spot for a lot of people. You can lick or finger the anus in this position very easily.

If you feel uncomfortable with the idea of anal stimulation, get each other going first in the shower. It is a great way to tease and add anticipation, plus, at least when you get out of the shower; you know that the other person is clean. If still not sure if you want to lick your partner's anus, try just using your fingers. The smallest touch can make a HUGE difference in the whole (or hole) experience.

Remember, it's not in how long you 69 for, it's about how much pleasure you can bring not only your partner, but also yourself. Experimenting with new styles is a great way to add spice to your love life and also a wonderful way to learn what other things are out there for you to enjoy!