How to give a great blow job!

7/23/2009

When giving head to your partner it is important to remember to use your entire body, not just your mouth. Use your hands, your eyes, your breasts, your tongue!

To begin, make sure your hands are busy stroking his shaft as you use your mouth on his penis. Stroking should start out slowly and then gradually get faster as you progress towards climax. A firm (not too tight) grip is nice for stroking. You can also use your hands for tickling and teasing such as running your hands along the inner parts of his thighs and stroking his chest. Cradling and massaging his balls is another way to use your hands that will increase his pleasure!

How do you use your eyes to give great head? Look him in the eye as you lick the tip of his penis. Hold his gaze as you pleasure him, he’ll love it! Plus, you get to see the fruits of your labor as his face contorts with pleasure.

Your breasts and body are an asset when giving head. You can rub your breasts against his legs or stick his penis between them and rub them up and down against his shaft. He’ll love to see this, but you can also position your body so that he sees other things while your face is in his lap. Visual stimulation is a great way to arouse him. If he’s lying down and you’re above him, you can turn sideways so he can be closer to your body and even use his hands to pleasure you at the same time. (A little mutual masturbation is a good thing.)
Using your mouth is a given when giving head, but don’t forget to use your tongue! The little bit of skin on the underside of his head is very sensitive and flicking your tongue against it will bring your guy to his knees—if he isn’t already on them! Lick his shaft (don’t forget eye contact!) and head as if you were licking a large lollipop.  Swirl your tongue around the tip of his penis while the tip is in your mouth.

These are some great ideas to remember when giving head, but remember it’s all up to you and your partner and what you both like. Listen to your partner’s reactions, and when the reaction is good, remember to use that technique more often. Also, don’t be afraid to try new things, you never know what fantastic feeling you might be missing out on!