


| Clips and Clamps: Turning ''Ow!'' Into''Ohhhh…'' |
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| Written by Sarah Katherine Lewis | |
| Tuesday, 12 February 2008 | |
![]() Have you ever fantasized about experiencing intense rushes of pleasure in your naughty bits, leaving them tender and exquisitely sensitive? Do you like feeling overpowered or, conversely, enjoy being the boss in the bedroom? Nipple clamps can be an incredibly versatile way to stimulate strong sensation all over the body. If you're into power play, you can use clamps and clips to torment your partner into ecstasy, or to show your Mistress or Sir exactly how devoted you are. But don't stop at nipple clamps: the world is full of inexpensive ways to torture yourself (or your partner) into mind-blowing bliss. Clamps work by pinching the skin, which forces blood out of the constricted areas. These wicked little accessories can feel painful going on, but as soon as the blood drains, the initial ouchy feelings will mellow into a dreamy numbness. After ten or fifteen minutes when the clamps are removed, you'll experience a rush of warmth as the blood returns to the pinched areas of skin, which respond by becoming deliciously hyper-sensitive. Experiment with different kinds of clamps to find the ones you prefer—all models have a slightly different feel. Wooden or plastic clothespins, available at any hardware store, are a cheap way to experiment with clamping. Some office workers bring home small binder clips for the very same pervy purpose, while some naughty hairstylists swear by the metal clips they use to keep their clients' locks in place. Clamps don't have to be fancy: they just have to pinch small amounts of skin with enough pressure to feel good, and stay on until you take them off. Though the vibrating kind, available at %adult sex toy% shops, are also worth a try. A pro tip: before applying a new clamp to a more intimate body part, test it by placing it on the nerve-rich webbing between your thumb and forefinger. If it feels tight but not unendurable, you're in business. If your hand feels like it got caught in mousetrap, not so good—try a slightly looser one. Always know how much "bite" your clamps have, and never dish out more pain than your partner can take. Don't leave very firm clamps on for more than a few minutes. Many people find nipple clamps addictive, and experiment with tighter clamps and longer lengths of time spent wearing them (never longer than 30 minutes, though—your skin needs blood to stay healthy). Some lucky experts can orgasm from post-clamp nipple stimulation alone. Real clamp aficionados don't restrict themselves to nipples, though: they apply clamps all over the body. Some common placements include the labia, the loose skin of the scrotum, the underside of the penis, and even the clitoris (be careful—some women are too sensitive for this!). Once the clamps are firmly in place, you can touch a vibrator to them to make the clamped spots tingle—or you can chill metal clamps with ice cubes, to numb the pinched areas even more effectively. Advanced users often tug on the clamps to make the pinching sensation even more pronounced, and some clamps are fiendishly designed to tighten with they're pulled. Remember, the most sensitive state of the skin is right after the clamps are removed—while you may mean to soothe, rubbing a previously clamped area can be far too strong a sensation. Trying blowing or licking gently instead. Mmmmm. | |
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